Okurimono Japan
Ukiyo-e style illustration: under a rising moon, a samurai sits exhausted beside shelves of wrapped gift boxes and a burned-out incense stick, while on the other side of a bamboo pole the recipient casually tears open a tiny red gift.
Illustration: Okurimono Japan

Gift Truths No.1

40 minutes choosing. 4 seconds watching them open it.

The incense burned down. The shopkeeper went home. The box is 5 cm wide. Worth it anyway — the 40 minutes were the gift.

Where this came from

The article behind it.

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The gift

The ones I’d actually send.